As mentioned in my previous blog that the standards in Speakers Corner to be ‘charitable’ have declined over the last three or four years. Dialogues and discussions have taken a back seat to mocking and insults. With the greatest of respect to those that attend the park, they do not command the English to an apt level or have a greater understanding of the subject matter which they look to defend. This goes for both Muslims and Christians. There are exceptions to the above; brother Hashim, brother Mansur, brother Adnan Rashid, brother Mohammed Hijab, Samsun, Colin and the Christian Sister (with the brown hair) have demonstrated the ability to have polemical discussion without trading insults.
Moving on, we (the Muslim’s) unequivocally condemn the attack of any women, be it in the park or outside. I don’t think I stand alone in this position, nevertheless, it is very important that we condemn that attack on Hatun (Hatun Tash). I note the regular esteemed speakers in the park like Mansur, Sheikh Mohammed and Hashim have already condemned this action.
Before we continue, the behaviour of Hatun, is not in any way, shape or form, a reflection of many millions of Christian’s across the world. Rather, my interaction, with Christian have always been positive. Whilst we disagree vehemently on matters pertaining to the Trinity and Oneness of god; we draw many similarities then differences in humanity. Many Christians are genuine, sincere, god fearing, compassionate and loving people. Nothing which resembles the Christian missionaries in the park unfortunately.
It is very important to understand that the attack on Hatun last week was allegedly committed by a Christian. This should be no surprise, whilst Muslims have been victim of her vile rants and offensive behaviour, it is the ultimate Christian community which have taken the most offence. Like Muslim’s have been held ransom by ISIS, the Christians have been held ransom by DCCI. Many Christian radio stations in the UK refuse to have members of DCCI on their stations. It was only a couple of weeks ago an Eritrean Christian sister called out Hatun and other missionaries for their attacks on Muslims in the parks. If you look at the comments sections on YouTube, many Christian’s have also distanced themselves from Hatun and DCCI.
Hatun Tash- Preaching Christianity or attacking Islam?
Hatun (Christian Missionary) has been a regular at the park for the last five years. She is part of DCCI, a group led by their leader Jay Smith (a known Islamaphobe), whose life mission has been to attack Islam. Jay Smith has been dismantled by several Muslim polemics including Shabir Ali. Like Jay Smith there is nothing genuine about Hatun’s opposition to Islam, rather her position is to mock Islam through a lack of understanding of Islam text through isolated verses of Quran, Hadith and Tafsir. Even when corrected, she will shout from the top of her voice, repeatedly, until you are forced to leave the ‘discussion’. This may be considered a victory, but those with intellectual insight, will free themselves from this conversation.
Freedom of Speech or Freedom of Expression in the Park? Which has the absolute right?
As we all know, Speakers Corner is the epitome of Free of Speech. Hatun has the right to say whatever she likes, irrespective of who she offends, this is an absolute right which is persevered in the park. I have my own view to the contrary but nevertheless let’s not digress. Her actions with respect to the pictures (depicting Allah and his messenger) and the holes in the Quran, are no long covered under free speech, rather her actions manifest under the freedom of expression? We see a double standard here, a couple of years ago, the police banned the Muslim’s from praying in the park, an interpretation of the law was applied and enforced. Yet, when Hatun mocks the Quran for the past couple of weeks, the law enforcement have not applied their interpretation of the law to prevent Hatun from acting on her Freedom of Expression to provoke Muslims.
Can Hatun be relied upon?
Spare the rhetorical nature of the question- the answer is no. I will not bore you with too much information here. The veracity of her attacks on Islam (as vile as they are), hold no weight. She neither can read or speak Arabic; I do not believe she can read the Arabic alphabet (no insult intended). The reality is, the Quranic language is different to what is translated in to English. For this reason, Non-Arab Muslims are strongly recommended to learn the Arabic language. There are other arguments, for example the context and the corpus-linguistics of the Arabic language of that time, which make it impossible for a layman to critique the Quran and it’s supported text unless they have a command of the Arabic language.
Other than being grammatically poor- The reality is, Hatun’s arguments have been dismantled over the years by Muslim da’ees in the park. She has been reduced to insults and provocative behaviour to trigger a reaction. As elementary as this maybe, when your left with no academical argument, the next best thing to do is provoke, to re-enforce a negative stereotype.
Hatun is a vile human being who has nothing but hate for Allah (swt) and his Messenger (pbuh). There is nothing academical in her rants, the fact that she is a Christian and refuses to preach her own faith whilst obsessing about Muslims, just about tells you everything in respect to her own-belief system.
The Solution!!!
If you are not thick skinned or intellectually apt to refute Hatun’s spiel, desist from all conversation or interaction from Christian Missionaries in the park. Our elders in the park (Mansur, Hashim and Adnan) have done the same, we should also follow them in this. Naturally, when they are not receiving a response, they will be forced to stop!!! Please do not harm or attack DCCI as this what they want you to do!!!
This week it is rumoured that Tommy Robinson (a known Islamaphobe) will be looking to attend the park this Sunday to support Hatun. This should not the Muslims as we are aware Jay Smith is bosom buddy’s with Tommy Robinson, Whilst this is considered a victory for Hatun, unfortunately, being linked to a known Islamaphobe only re-enforces the stereotype that Hatun and DCCI are linked with extremist!!
Finally- for the younger generation of Muslims who have a zeal for their religion and want to protect their faith, please do not come with this mob mentality, follow Hatun or attack her. This is not a place to become YouTube famous. Rather spend your time either learning the religion, being more versed in the English language or learning from elders (Hashim, Mansur and Adnan Rashid) in the park by listening quietly in their discussions.
Speakers Corners the epitome of what democracy stands for. The right to voice your opinion about any such matters that you wish without being persecuted by any member of the public or prosecuted by the police/government.
Speakers Corner once was a place where budding personalities honed their abilities to put their views across whilst also being challenged by other academics or the wider public. The park has been graced by esteemed individuals like George Orwell. Lenin, Marcus Garvey, William Morris etc…all going to etch their names in history. However, the park is now synonymous to racist, extremist, thugs and bigots. When mixed together leads to a cacophony of intolerable noise, foul language, insults, threats and then violence. Notwithstanding the above, there are some great speakers like Mansur, Hashim, Adnan Rasheed, Mohammed Hijab, Ali Dawah and Bro Hajji who are well versed daee’s who are well worth listening to.
Marcus Garvey
Why the rise of hostility in Speakers Corner?
There are a couple of variables which contribute to growing hostilities which I will touch upon below.
With the rise of the Right-Wing and the ever-growing concern of Islamophobia, the park has been rightfully used by the public to voice their concerns which is fantastic; however, there are pockets of people from different religions and beliefs that use the park to destroy the fabric of what Speaker Corner stands for. Whilst you have the right to challenge people’s views, I do believe that there are ways in which you can do this without having to raise your voice, throwing insults and exchanging blows.
YouTube:
Like with anything in life the interaction of social media is a must. Speaker’s corner does not fall foul of this exception. A lot of the going on’s of the park are now recorded on a weekly basis. Whilst some may argue that it maybe for the great good or bad of the park, YouTube has exposed the park and as a result, viewers will liken the park to a weekly soap drama.
YouTube Live:
As tradition holds Speakers Corner is observed every Sunday’s from 12am to 11:59pm, Sunday evening. However, with the rise of technology, the ‘Regular’ Speaks Corner residents are now taking their conversations and political agendas online through ‘live streams’ which then spills over to the park. These live streams can often last between 8 to 12 hours which then begs the question what do these people do with their lives. Nevertheless, this ‘he’ said ‘she’ said adds to the extra tension in the park.
Jedi -Guiding A New Generation or Destroying A New Generation?
 Jedi Ali better known as Jedi has been a regular at the park for the past three to four years. Jedi (to the best of my knowledge) is a black separatist that advocates for black betterment by black people, which in itself is a noble cause. Jedi is part of an organization called GANG (Guiding a New Generation) mirrors that which has been mentioned above.
Since I remember being at the park or watching speakers’ corner on YouTube, Jedi is constantly surrounded by some form of controversy. Jedi is involved in heckling, shouting, using abusive language, intimidation or physically assaulting Muslim’s. So, the question remains, how can GANG achieve its goal when you have a 45-year-old man and his other group of associates behaving like a bunch of school kids in a playground?
Jedi attacking Muslims!!!
A couple of years ago Jedi was considered a friend of the Muslim community in the park. When there was hostility in the park, Jedi was amongst those non-Muslim’s who defended the Muslims. However, as the years have passed, Jedi has built himself a reputation of being verbally and physically abusive towards Muslim’s. Zakariya, Abu Talha, Oz and now Ahmed Ali have been subject of his abuse. Jedi’s attacks have become more frequent and vicious. Jedi may argue that the attacks were not against Islam but more against the individual, but that in itself begs the question, why are all his victims Muslims? Is there a Muslim agenda to attack Jedi? Stop Jedi from manifesting his free Speech? Do they intimidate, bully or heckle him? Not from what I have seen but maybe Jedi knows something we don’t know
The Ahmed Ali incident
A month ago, Jedi and his mob (Maku and Beefy) had viciously attacked Ahmed Ali in the park after Ahmed Ali was provoked in to throwing a punch towards Jedi and his gang. Ahmed Ali was viciously attacked thereafter buy three men twice his size. Prior to the altercation, Ahmed Ali was having a conversation with Steve about an incident involving Ahmed Ali earlier, Jedi and his GANG member had hijacked their conversation with constant heckling, Jedi’s agenda before punches were thrown was to provoke Ahmed Ali by insulting his mother, which ultimately lead to the ensuing incident. Ahmed Ali was banned for one year from the park and no further action was taken upon Jedi and his gang. The punishment could be considered as inconsistent as Jedi and GANG were responsible for provoking Ahmed Ali and their actions thereafter were far more dangerous. Â
What people may not be aware of, an incident had occurred between Ahmed Ali and Jedi six or seven months ago. Ahmed Ali was having a discussion about black betterment with Raven (leader of gang). Amongst many other topics covered, Ahmed Ali had questioned the violent and inappropriate behavior of certain GANG members; his position was that GANG’s main objectives of black betterment could not be achieved so long as these particular individuals are still associated with GANG. Jedi who was present at this discussion was clearly rattled by Ahmed Ali’s comment, he then heckled and verbally abused Ahmed Ali. Ahmed Ali who was aware that Jedi attacked Oz last week, reminded Jedi that he was not scared of Jedi. Since that day Jedi has been looking for a reason to antagonize him until he successfully managed to get the better of him.
Post Ahmed Ali- Mohammed Hijab challenges Jedi, Jedi runs and then escorted out by police!!!
Jedi’s aura of invincibility had risen to an all-time high. After attacking aesthetically smaller men with very little repercussion, Jedi came to the park resuming business as usual. However, the muslim community were enraged by his action and demanded him to address the incident. Naturally Jedi’s dismissive behaviour would not enable him to do so and he offered Mohammed Hijab a fight, to which Mohammed Hijab accepted.
 As is the case with most bullies, when confronted with someone who is of equal stature and not willing to back down, Jedi chickened away from the confrontation (the videos on TNT’s Greek, COE and Mohammed Hijab’s channels), all show his initial reaction when Hijab was going to fight him. Jedi spent a huge part of his time playing the victim card claiming that he was going to get stabbed and he continued pacing up and down the park anxiously. Reality hit home that he didn’t want to fight Mohammed Hijab and he did his best to leave the park was eventually escorted out by police.
The confusion and the body language says it all!!
‘You never did this to Raj or Tan’ but why Jedi?
Jedi in his anxious state appealed to reasoning by mentioning that the muslims never attacked Raj or Tan (both who vehemently are opposed to Islam). Well the answer is quite academic. Both Tan and Raj have never physically harmed a muslim.  Had Jedi not attacked muslim’s previously and handled the issue with respect, this situation would have never arisen. Â
Quite often you hear that the muslims are always physically aggressive in the park. Well if that was the case; how is that Tan, Raj and members of DCCI ministry have not been physically attacked? DCCI are an extremist conservative Christian group that look to antogonise Muslim’s with cherry-picked and misquoted verses of Islamic literature.  Their leader, Jay Smith a self-confessed Islamaphobe, is a personal friend of Tommy Robinson. Â
Stripper turned gangster? Examining Jedi.
Like with most bullies there is always some a sub-text as to why they behave the way they do. In Jedi’s case it’s quite simple. Allegedly, Jedi was bullied whilst growing up in his estate in Peckham. He went on to pursuit various careers, amongst others, as a stripper and pole dancer. What it appears, like in many cases, Jed has internalized a lot of his anger from his past coupled with his chosen career as a stripper and plastered this new persona as road-man gangster which is a far cry from ‘reality’.
Attack one, attack us all!!!
Members of GANG have often brandished their motto of ‘attack one attack us all’. The acronym of GANG has formed in to a literal gang. Allegedly Raspect who was present at the time of the Ahmed Ali incident, reverted from his original position that Ahmed Ali was wrongfully attacked by later boasting GANG’s mottot. But yet when the same principle was applied by the muslims, the race card came was used by GANG members. Hypocrisy and double standard at the highest order. For the record 50 percent of the African continent is muslim just to end that conversation. Â
In Summary
What had happened in the park was a sorry state of affairs for Speakers Corner. The park should not have come to the point where people have to resort to violence. The park should be preserved as a place where people have the right to be cordial in discussion without the fear of being attacked. Nevertheless, violence begets violence. Jedi had this coming for along time and this was clearly a matter in which chickens coming home to roost.
Brother Mansur, Hahim and Mohammed Hijab
Unfortunately, a lot of people have used the park to massage their own ego to canvass a life that they may have never have lived. Speakers Corner is not the place you look for a fight. The park is not a playground for gangsters or for those who want to have a dust up rather it is a place for people to share their views without being persecuted. Should you wish to pursuit this life, there are many other places in London which welcome this behavior, or alternatively there are MMA gyms all across London.
If GANG is to be successful in it’s objective, just to echo the words of Ahmed Ali, GANG members have to behave in a way in which the younger generation of black youth can aspire towards being. This can only be achieved by members of GANG having sound intellect conversation, behaving respectful to those in the park without resorting to foul language and violence. All of the above characteristics can be found in members like Raven.
*For the record. Am not against GANG or it’s aim’s and objectives. If anything, I think it is a noble cause and I wish that they succeed in their endeavor’s.   Â
A bit of advice:
Speakers Corner is an extremely toxic place where all sorts of insults will be thrown towards yourself and your religion. If you are not thick skinned and are not apt in defending Islam than do your best to avoid the park. Should you be sincere in seeking knowledge, listen to those speakers who have knowledge. Like Hashim, Mansur, Adnan Rashid, Mohammed Hijab both Hamza (Bengali and English), Abbas, Bro Hajji and Ali Dawah. Imam Malik once stated that the best form of knowledge is listening. Â Also avoid the fitna of certain regulars in the park especially those without knowledge. If you are argue with a fool, bystanders will see two fools.
Also, I understand it can be tempting listening to someone like Mohammed Hijab. As relatable as he can be; in that he is young man, probably from the same streets as many of us and facing the same challenge of a working-class Londoner. However, it is important to remember that he obtained degrees and masters whilst also studying Islam. He never gained this knowledge over night and it will be naïve for us to replicate the same . This requires knowledge!!!
May Allah
(swt) reward all our brothers and sisters that are involved in the dawah
scene!!!
In the name of Allah (SWT) the most beneficent and most merciful.
This blog is my travel and journey through the holy land in order for me to fulfil one of the five pillars of Islam. The experiences are my experiences and should be read with subjectivity. This is in no way, shape form or manner a deterrent from you performing Hajj. In fact, I strongly recommend that you perform the Hajj as soon as you can. There is no such achievement a muslim can achieve then performing Hajj. Allah (SWT) elevates your status and Imaan, it is now your job to preserve and maintain what Allah has provided you with.
A quick mention to Shah Bhai (Zaytun Travels) who never got a mention in the blog. Your support did not get unoticed. May Allah (SWT) Reward you for your help and support.
I want to thank my mother. Who I owe my life to. Without my mum this Hajj would have never come in to fruition. Both myself and mother have hugely benefited from this journey of a lifetime!!
29 November 2018 Alhamdulillah it’s been three months since I have come back from Hajj. There is not one day that I don’t think about my Hajj experience. Each and every day was special and it provided me with something new.
The physical hajj was performed five days but the real hajj started when I landed back at Heathrow Airport. There have been many obstacles and challenges that I have faced since I have arrived. But with my sincere belief in Allah (SWT), I have been doing my level best to deal with these obstacles in the most appropriate way without engaging in fitna. It’s not always easy but when has life ever been easy. The two things which I have taken back from my Hajj; Never have expectation and every day is a happy day. I will break this down for you so that it makes sense.
Never have expectation: In life we all fall in to the trap of setting up expectation and when those expectations are shattered, we lose hope and as a result we become bitter. Whether it is at home, work, friends, social life or with family. Just remember the good that you do is written by Allah (SWT), and when you do that good, you do it for the sake Allah (SWT), never expect your efforts to be reciprocated back. If, they do return the efforts, consider it a bonus and a blessing from Allah (SWT).
With the greatest of respect’s, you will find this more with your family members. Since my father left my house, majority of my family members have made very little effort to visit my house or see if am dead or alive. I grew frustrated and I then chose to isolate myself from the family. When I visit my family now, I visit them to maintain family ties, but I have no expectation for them to fulfill the same. Their deeds are left with Allah (SWT) and so are mine.
Muslims are also told to worship God and be good to parents and the relatives – Surah An Nisah (4:36)
Be Happy: Happiness is a cure to physical and mental illness. Being positive and avoiding negativity is crucial to our existence. If, you are not in control of a situation, you should never work yourself up to the extent where you start losing sleep over it. People are normally controlled by things in which they have no control over. They grow frustrated and the rest takes over. I have fallen victim of this throughout my life; Allah ordains everything in your life, all you can do is pray and be happy for whatever Allah provides you with. Equally, you have to ‘tie your camel’ and you have to work for everything, but essentially, whatever Allah (SWT) has in store for you, is nothing that you can’t handle. Pray and have Qadr with whatever Allah (SWT) provides you with.
El Hajj: In terms of going forward. I have a title in which Allah has blessed me with, El Hajj. The title ‘El Hajj’ is not a just a glorified title. In every sense of that title, I have to live up to the responsibility for the rest of my life. I would encourage my family and friends to remind me of my title if I sway as a human being. Like any human, I am flawed, however; I do wish to ponder and reflect so that I can improve, day by day. Ultimately, we should always achieve something new each day.
Swearing: One of my biggest weaknesses was swearing. Majority of us are guilty of swearing. Allah (SWT) does not like those who use profanities. I promised myself during my Jamarat trips that I would reduce the use of foul language and profanities. By the grace of Allah (SWT) my swearing has been reduced and I have reaped the benefits as my souls feels lighter
Reading: As humans, we have no right to stay ignorant. If you have the time to read Facebook or Instagram meme’s then we have no reason for not keeping ourselves informed. Reading is the cure to ignorance and we should make a conscious effort of keeping ourselves informed. The first verses which were revealed to our beloved prophet Muhammad (Pbuh), was Iqra (read). We should all be encouraged, to read the Quran and Hadith and literature that will be of benefit to us. *From both Muslims and non-Muslims bretherin.
The purpose of this journey was not to strip the engine but to add to the areas which required me to grow. Striking the right balance between deen and dunya is key. I wish to do so going forwards in my journey. Forever how long it last.
Day 1 (7 August 2018): Finally, boarded the plane. The last 24 hours have provided me with some numb moments. Moments in which I have found it difficult to contain myself. Whilst there is meant to be an overwhelming feeling of joy and happiness; there is an emptiness which lingers with me and it has not been easy to shake off.
The root cause of my emptiness is factored by a couple of issues. Firstly, the fear of my Hajj not being accepted by Allah (SWT) always dawns on me; Secondly, having my Mother travelling with me is always concern for a few reasons (which I will mention in a separate paragraph); Thirdly, leaving my sister (Yaz) on her own during this time was not the most ideal situation. In all honesty, the last nine years, have provided many down’s rather than up’s.
Nevertheless, the Hajj journey is one of the most challenging but yet most rewarding that a Muslim will experience in his lifetime. What I do often remind myself, is that Allah has yet again bestowed his mercy upon me and my mother and invited us back to his sanctuary again. I also will be following in the footsteps of our greatest example to mankind, Muhammad (PBUH).
Malcolm X’s journey to the sacred land was one of the most insightful descriptions that I have read of the holy pilgrimage to Mecca. I often gain a high degree of inspiration from Malcolm’s life and his experiences. He will be in the back of my mind whilst am performing my Hajj. Parents:
I wish not to dwell on this matter for too long, however, I have a degree of frustration that I try to contain because of people very close to me. I know these individual’s love me unconditionally, however, their decision-making, has driven me crazy at times and I have not managed to fully shake these frustrations off.
In terms of Hajj, my main concern is mums health. Am sure she will be fine; however, the concerns are always there. You often hear of these ‘near death’ hajj experiences.
My Hajj experience is not one in which I set myself the expectation to change overnight and neither would I prefer to do that. I believe change should be organic. Although, there is one characteristic, I wish Allah (SWT) will bestow upon me and that is emotional intelligence. I believe emotional intelligence is something I could really strengthen. I really commend those who can master their emotions and abstain from unnecessary drama. Madame Nilly, is a lady that I really respect, in terms of someone mastering emotional intelligence.
In the absence of having no contact with my friends and family, this blog, will serve as my companion for the next three weeks. So, whoever takes the time to read this, you will be living my Hajj with me.
Landed at Medina airport @ 20:00 (Local time) Typical middle-eastern weather, 30 degrees in the night, hot air, nothing can really prepare you for it, other than getting yourself out there. The weather is unforgiving only god knows what tomorrow will be like. After a 35-minute ride from the airport, we finally arrived. There it was in all its glory; Medina Al-Monowara, the mosque illuminated the sky with its bright lights and the famous green dome as it’s centre piece. I couldn’t help but creep a smile at this magnificent site.
Hotel is lovely but the WIFI is much to be desired for. Wifi in our room is restricted to the sitting area, which is a pain. I enjoy watching cartoons to help me sleep, I guess it’s a silent sleep tonight. Sob Sob. We finally found our luggage at 1:30am. Bed time
Day 2 (8 August 2018) Mum was meant to wake us up for Fajr at 4:30am, but yet we are praying Fajr at 6am. What a fantastic start to our spiritual journey of a life time. In all fairness we slept at 2:30am. After quickly praying Salah, strict instructions to mum, not to wake me up until breakfast is served, which is at 8 am in the Morning.
Surprise, Surprise. Mum has woken me up at least four to five times before 8am. Each time I was awoken; the worry and panic was felt in every breath taken. I forced myself up and we made our way down to the Breakfast place at 8:20am. Another surprise, we are the only ones, there.
Although very irritated by the lack of mother not listening to strict instructions, I managed to explain to her in a calm and collected voice that, sleep was essential to me; without sleep I would be able unable to operate, and without me being be physical/mentally able, she would be unable to do much. Hopefully, this explanation will be well received for the rest of our trip.
Just before Zuhr salah. I had a shower, sprayed and gelled my hair, put on my thobe, and embarked on my first day in the searing heat.
After praying salah. I made a start on my duas and I managed to cover mine and dads. This exercise had taken me up to Asr. Am not sure if there is a concern. How many sins do I have in respect to all my respected duas? Or is it just the case of me being a slow writer?
The Rawdah massacre (with-out the massacre): After Magribh I decided to have a quick gander around the Al-Monowara masjid. I decided that I would visit the prophets grave and send my salutations. So far, this was not the wisest decision I made during this trip. Very quickly things turned nasty. To get to the prophet’s grave, you have to pass through the Rawdah (Strip of earth that will ascend to heaven on the day of judgement). They say praying on Rawdah is beneficial, however, it is not an obligation to pray on the Rawdah strip. Unfortunately, the masses, who are ill informed about the importance of the Rawdah, will do anything humanly possible to pray there. Quite often acts of violence, will erupt with; pushing, shoving, punches and kicks.
The issue with waiting in the Rawdah que, is that there are vast number of the Hujjaj who understand the importance of being cordial. The behavior of people in the Radwah strip is likened to that of Wilder Beast running in the Savanah. Am sure Attenborough’s voice-over would have been perfect at the particular stage. *PLEASE do not feel deterred from visiting the Rawdah and praying 2 Nafl. Just be appropriate with your timings. Not to get side-tracked. I was protecting a brother who was suffocated in the midst of the pandemonium which had broken out. Unfortunately, I couldn’t speak the same language as him, but It was written all over his face, that he was struggling whilst also being traumatized by the sheer idiocy of the violence surrounding him. My hand was crushed for a couple of seconds, with my body being dragged 5 meters without my will; one leg being stretched towards Makkah and the other to Riyadh. I sighed out of relief when I managed to get through the Rawdah.
Salam to the greatest!!! I managed to give my Salam to the prophet (Pbuh) and his companions Umar and Abu Bakr (R.A). A very subdued moment where all emotions had run through me. The process lasted a couple of seconds and I quickly moved on. I didn’t want to humiliate myself by being physically assisted by the mosque security. Unfortunately, there are other pilgrims who tend to cry profusely at the foot-step of his tomb, whilst quickly having their senses being whacked in to them by the security staff.
Five years ago, I felt as though the security were a bit harsh in the way they dealt with pilgrims. In all honesty, they deal with this nonsensical behaviour on a day-to-day basis.
Dinner was ok. A buffet system. I ate a little and retreated upstairs to my room. Mother has gone to the Rawdah. I am unable to go as am physically shattered plus am not allowed in the women’s section. I have given her strict instructions about ways in which she can ‘try’ to keep herself safe. I doubt she will listen, nevertheless, we live in hope. Goodnight.
Day 3 (9 August 2018) Tahajjud prayers at 4:24 am and the Mosque is still heaving, although, the weather was the calmest since I arrived in Saudia. I ended up staying in the haram until 6am in the Moving. Long sleeps are reminding me of a distant memory. We are due to meet at 8am sharp, as we are due to go for ziarat.
Breakfast was not great. Ziarat was bland, we literally saw the sites for 15 minutes, and made our way back to the coach. Our group leader, Abdul Zaman gave zero information about the ziarat sights. I was personally well read on the Ziarat sites, but there were some who really did not know much. I was quite shocked how laid back our group leader was about this. That lasted for two hours so I suppose it was good procrastination.
My own Ziarat in Medina and mission Ajwa (date) buying: We arrived back for Zuhr. Considering that we were meant to leave for Makkah after Jummah (tommorow), I decided that it was very important that I had to buy dates and see a couple of local ziarat sights (Ali & Abu-Bakr R.A houses) and the place where Abu Bakr had taken baaya to become first caliph of the Islamic empire.
*The place of Abu Bakr’s (R.A) baaya is literally opposite nabawi masjid. The Saudi government have made the place a garden of peace; with loads of trees surrounding the garden, green grass, nicely trimmed bushes and a fountain fixated in the middle. Considering we are surrounded by desert, I found one of the Most peaceful and yet Most cool places in Medina.
I also had the chance to visit the area in which we resided in our previous visit to Medina in 2013. I realized how the surrounding areas of our previous hotel was relatively run-down compared to where we are currently residing. I noted there is a high degree of tranquility and peace which is immersed in this area. Am just hoping it’s not just nostalgia from our first stay.
I managed to also find the date bazaar. This bazaar is not usually found by tourist so I feel like this is a huge accomplishment on my behalf. Everyone else seems to be buying it in tourist hot-spots set at extortionate prices. I did try to suggest venturing slightly outside but I don’t think people have taken my suggestion seriously. I think because I look in a certain way, people tend to disregard me? Am not really bothered it’s just a running thought…
On the plus side, my Bengali connections, in any country that I visit, tends to always have its benefits. It was through my spoken Bengali which enabled me to find the date bazaar. My moto in life, if you have an asset, use it to the best of your ability, and you may reap the rewards.
Today has been a lonely day for me, knowing that we are not going Makkah until Saturday due to issues with ministry of Hajj, has set me back a little. As much as I love Medina, there really is nothing to do here, plus I have not really vibed with any of the group members yet.
A lot of the lads are from the same local area; a group of lads came with their mates and the others are accompanied by their fathers, so they have made their own group. *Please note, all the above individuals have all been extremely pleasant and polite. Having Baj here would have been great and she would have compensated for Most other companies. The miserable cow!!!
Plans for tomorrow: Ever the optimist I decided to suggest an idea to mum. She was all on-board for the idea. We decided to visit the, hop on and hop off bus tour. Can you believe that!!! Medina has the world-famous bus tour company, but honestly, which tourist are they appealing to? There are only Muslim’s in this region. LMAO!!! Am also tour guiding a Bengali family in our group. I will take them through my local Medina ziarat sites. They look enthusiastic and excited I also want to reciprocate the same energy. At least they will have a great memory of Medina.
Thought of the day: Multiculturalism – We are unfortunately based 13 floors up, which means we are always the last to reach our rooms. From the ground floor to the 13th, we are surrounded in a confined space, with brothers and sisters from different parts of the world. From the white to black, brown to yellow, straight hair to afro. We are here united under one banner Color, culture, caste and creed take a back seat. Subhanallah, how lucky are we.
Day 4 (10 August 2018) 5:30am and I have been unable to pray Fajr in the mosque so we prayed in our rooms. Mum has managed to blame me, obviously, she is not accountable. Typical mum’s eh. On a side note, my mum’s panicky behaviour does really work me up. I have been doing well to control myself so far.
There is a slight tenseness at breakfast. I think we both have annoyed each other a bit we are both making a conscious effort not to let our tongues lash out. Small talk is currently working lol. I had taken it upon myself to be positive in this matter by suggesting that we must enquire a bit More about the city tour. Plus, it would be a Moment that both Mother and son would always cherish.
My gripe with my Mother on this matter, was that she never did enough to keep us stimulated. Both me and Yaz missed out on our youth, when it came to holidays and participating in fun activities, that young people normally do. Now that me and Yaz frequently go out, my mother is extremely keen to participate in all our outings. We enquired about the city tour bus and both decided that we should read jumah and then venture out straight after Asr.
The gap in between the morning and jumah was spent visiting the outskirts of Jannatul Baki (apostles heavenly grave). There was a Bengali cleaner, who was extremely kind, he decided to show us where Uthman Ibn Affan (R.a) was buried and where Fatima (R.A) graves were. In that time, we saw a high volume of shia’s whaling at the grave and also enquiring about whether they could collect some mud from Fatima’s (r.a) grave. A bit of a stupid question which only required a similar response, considering we are in Salaf central.
As we were leaving, there was a growing number of Shia’s entering the Baki area. The police and army presence was increasing. With three or four indestructible riot transports being stationed just in case of any chaos.
Jummah to Asr, not much to report. Other than the fact that the Bengali family were joining us on the city tour to Madinah.
After Asr, we made our way to the Medina bus tour station (which is opposite the main gates of the Mosque). To our surprise the Bengali family had joined us. The tour was something different, both for the city and for me and my Mother. All the historical sights, are place we have already seen, but it was always nice to revisit.
From the last time I visited. I appreciated the sights more as I have done extensive research about the deen.
Arrange Marriage in Medina?? On our trip, there was a bunch of girls who used the tour bus. They were openly making eye contact through our first interaction. Obviously being in such a holy site, I subtly avoided eye contact, but she made herself known to me, by positioning herself in eye view of me. It was hard not to see her but I did abstain from looking. Long story short, she managed to sit with mum and decided to introduce herself. Before I knew it, she had taken selfies with mum and exchanged contact details and Snapchat. Snap!! My mum and Snap. Turns out she does actually have access to latest technology.
The Bengali family were making a joke of the situation. They were offering to buy dates for me so that we could progress with the nikkah, I laughed sheepishly and went along with the joke. Questions then circled about marriage, which am not going to bore you with.
After Magribh, we set out to the date market and I showed them a few ziarat sights close to the prophet’s Mosque. Qadeer the Bengali brother, a married man, with two kids who accompanied his Mother and wife. He had taken the opportunity to find the perfect time to provide me with marriage advice. Number one rule; your wife will never live with your Mother, so start planning a life without mum.
Qadeer is a good, sincere and light-hearted brother. However, his life story was very sad and his current situation is a constant battle between balancing two lives. I felt for him and his predicaments. I will make dua for Qadeer, another name in the dua book.
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